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Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Gardens and anniversaries


Yesterday was our 7th wedding anniversary. My darling brought me daisies and told me he'd marry me again in a heartbeat. I thought about how lucky I was to have somebody who brings me daisies and loves me so fiercely.


My Kwanzan cherry tree also bloomed yesterday, which was a pleasant anniversary gift. We had removed a gigantic silver poplar from our back yard a couple of years ago (our neighbors cheered - it suckered and fluffed like a cottonwood and was aphid-ridden and just a horrid, invasive tree for everyone), and planted the flowering cherry tree some yards away in its stead. It is covered in pink carnation-like blooms every spring, and is quite beautiful (and doesn't fruit, which I love). Genevieve was sick at home for the second day in a row yesterday (nothing that involved unpleasant bodily functions; just a slight fever and a lot of crankiness). So, I put her into the big hammock in the back yard while I planted and weeded nearby. Poor kiddo was pretty tired and whiny, and conked out for several hours on the family room floor later that day. Sophie (the cocker spaniel) was thrilled that I was home, and laid down in the shade in the yard while I worked. Rough life there, Soph.


I am gambling on our last frost date, and hoping the forecast is correct in terms of no additional freezes this week (we will be to 90% confidence sometime next week), but I couldn't resist putting in our vegetables and a number of new perennials. We'll have tomatoes, beans, carrots, radishes, watermelon, pumpkins, peppers, acorn squash, strawberries, cucumbers, zucchini, lettuce and swiss chard before long - fresh and lovely. I planted a number of shasta daisies, rudbeckia (black eyed susans), centranthus (Jupiter's beard), phlox, penstemon, a viburnum and a climbing rose (and a number of miscellaneous perennials that Genevieve picked out a few days ago at the flower market - "Can we have one of THESE, too, Mommy?" I cannot resist a child holding flowers - how can you possibly say no?). I added rosemary, marjoram, and basil to my herb garden. The kids (especially Eleanor) wanted table grapes, so I bought a vine and need to get a trellis set up for it. It should bear 10-14 pounds of white seedless once it's established.


I had told my father about my gardening plans a few weeks ago, and he commented that my late grandmother Susan would approve, and that I'd be on par with her gardening skills once I knew all of the latin names for everything I planted. I replied that I already knew exactly where I had planted teucrium aroanium, it was keeping it alive that was the challenge. He laughed, and said I got THAT from my mother. (I'm sure she appreciates being associated with plant death, Dad!) So far, I think I managed to move my alcea (hollyhock) and a couple of bunches of achillea (yarrow) without killing them; we'll see if that trend holds!


I was awakened at 5 am this morning by heavy rain on the roof, and the realization that it was back to reality at work today, with plenty of catch up to do after being gone. I suppose I'd better go DO that work now! I'll have time to visit my new plants later.

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Friday, May 2, 2008

Sleepover Rover




Well, we've decided to head to southern California for a vacation in the near future. I cannot wait. I'm looking forward to going somewhere just for the hey of it (usually we go to visit relatives in some part of the U.S. - which is great, but also has limited our travel plans somewhat in the past), and I admit that I'm jazzed about taking the kids to Disneyland. They will be 11, 8, and 5 when we go, tall enough for nearly all the rides, and young enough to believe that it really IS Mickey Mouse when they meet him. Sarah is the most excited about Legoland in Carlsbad - that there is an entire park devoted to her favorite Legos is beyond her imagination. I'm not really sure what she thinks it will be like, but I hope it lives up to her expectations. Dave and I are making sure we have plenty of time to relax and do things outside of amusement parks as well - the beach, maybe the SD Zoo, maybe just swimming or reading a book.
Leaving home for a while poses the problem of what to do with our furry friends. We have 4 cats at home, and they're easy. They require food and love, which is easy for Dave's mom to take care of when she gets home from work.
My cocker spaniel Sophie, however, has been my shadow since February when I brought her home from the shelter. She hangs out with Dave during the four days I'm at work, and follows me around faithfully the instant I'm home. As I type this, she is lying on the floor next to me, just happy that I'm nearby. She is definitely "my dog," and would rather be petted than fed, and although she's essentially housetrained, won't go outside unless I'm in sight (I have to remember to take her out every few hours, because she won't take herself consistently). Fortunately, going outside every few hours is good for my disposition, too, so I wouldn't say that I mind. The kids adore Sophie (especially since Sophie doesn't care if they put funny hats on her or play with her ears), and find it funny that she is so attached to me. "She LOVES you, Mom!" (giggle giggle). And Sophie is a nice, quiet walking companion, and gives a lot of love without asking for much in return. It's a relief at the end of the day to sit down with a cup of tea and a warm doggie at my feet.
We thought about bringing Sophie along for the trip - she travels well, and is the easiest and quietest of my 5-year-olds to take in the car, frankly. The trouble is that our destinations are less dog-friendly; Disneyland has kennels, but she'd be in a cage all day, and we'd have to come back to spend time with her during our visit (the Disneyland folks don't touch the dogs, and I don't think she'd be sufficiently cheered by the cute pictures of Lady and the Tramp on the building). The hotels are dog-friendly, but Legoland isn't. Neither is the zoo, neither are certain areas of the beach, nor most restaurants of course. So, Sophie would largely be cooped up all day without us - not fun, and certainly a big guilt trip for me.
So what do you do with a goofy dog who just wants to be with you during your non-dog-friendly vacation? You try to find a substitute "you" for the week. I came across a program called "Sleepover Rover" which places dogs with screened dogsitting families for about what it costs to board at a kennel. Sophie and I are going to go meet Pam and her four bassett hounds today (hopefully Sophie won't be overwhelmed by the "pack"), in hopes that Sophie will get along with her droopy friends and can stay with them while we're gone. I hope it goes well; Sophie is definitely more of a people-dog than a dog-dog; she may not like being surrounded by dogs. If she went to stay with cats, though - we'd be set! (She is absolutely submissive to our four cats, who enjoy ruling the roost perhaps a bit too much!)
Wish us luck!
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